🕊️ Konflik & penyelesaian · #41
When should a marital conflict end in separation?
When all efforts at reconciliation have failed, or there is serious wrongdoing such as violence, separating on good terms is permitted and sometimes better.
The Qur'an says: "retain them honourably or release them kindly" (2:229), and forbids keeping a wife in order to harm her (2:231). The Prophet ﷺ allowed the wife of Thabit bin Qais to redeem herself by khulʿ because she could not live with him (Sahih al-Bukhari 5273). The route depends on the party: the husband may apply for talaq; the wife may apply for khulʿ (redemption divorce), fasakh on specific grounds, or divorce by taʿliq. All go through the Syariah Court. A wife who asks for divorce without reason is censured in the hadith, but when there is harm, it is her right. See Talaq & divorce.
The Qur'an says: "retain them honourably or release them kindly" (2:229), and forbids keeping a wife in order to harm her (2:231). The Prophet ﷺ allowed the wife of Thabit bin Qais to redeem herself by khulʿ because she could not live with him (Sahih al-Bukhari 5273). The route depends on the party: the husband may apply for talaq; the wife may apply for khulʿ (redemption divorce), fasakh on specific grounds, or divorce by taʿliq. All go through the Syariah Court. A wife who asks for divorce without reason is censured in the hadith, but when there is harm, it is her right. See Talaq & divorce.
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Surah al-Baqarah 2:229Surah al-Baqarah 2:231Sahih al-Bukhari 5273Act 303, s.47Act 303, s.52