Short guides to marriage, family and polygyny, with evidence from the Quran and Sunnah.
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A husband's leadership as a trust and an act of mercy, not lordship — maintenance, protection, consultation, character at home, family worship, reading Surah an-Nisa' 4:34 with its limits, and justice in polygyny; with a chapter for wives.
A heart at peace — contentment as inner richness and gratitude, not passivity: patience with knowledge, money and enough, accepting qadar while claiming your rights, contentment in polygyny and self-care; with a chapter for husbands.
The Qawwam ManThe Contented Woman
A Home of Tranquillity
Ghirah: Jealousy in the Home
Our Children
Justice Is a Trust
For the Second Wife and After
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A practical guide for husbands — justice, nafkah, turns (qasm), budgeting, time and accountability, with one wife or more; and what to do if you cannot be fair.
Children's welfare in monogamous and polygynous families — love, parenting by age, fairness between children, siblings across two homes, when parents are in conflict, and a chapter for teenagers.
Jealousy in the household of the Prophet ﷺ from sahih narrations, and how to handle it — healthy and destructive jealousy, practical steps for wives and husbands, and when to seek help.
A husband's leadership as a trust and an act of mercy, not lordship — maintenance, protection, consultation, character at home, family worship, reading Surah an-Nisa' 4:34 with its limits, and justice in polygyny; with a chapter for wives.
A heart at peace — contentment as inner richness and gratitude, not passivity: patience with knowledge, money and enough, accepting qadar while claiming your rights, contentment in polygyny and self-care; with a chapter for husbands.
A guide to the happy family, the Sunnah way, for every couple with one wife or more — the purpose of marriage, sakinah, mawaddah and rahmah, rights and duties, character at home, communication and everyday Sunnah practices.
Islamic marriage from start to finish — intention, merisik, the proposal, the pre-marriage course, registration at the religious office, the pillars and conditions of a valid nikah, the wali, mahr, the akad, walimah and married life. 16 chapters.
The first husband and wife — the story of Adam and Eve as the Qur'an and authentic hadith tell it, and its lessons for marriage today.
A Muslim family's journey — from the marriage contract, through the pillars of Islam and the personal obligations lived together with the children, to the Holy Land: the obligatory and recommended practices for husband, wife and children.
How a husband and wife should speak to each other — choosing tone and language, how to frame words in good times and in hard times, while preserving respect. 6 chapters, grounded in the Qur'an & Sunnah.
A short guide to marriage in Islam — one wife or more, in conflict and after it.
The rights one Muslim owes another — the greeting of peace, visiting the sick, following the funeral, accepting invitations, sincere advice, kindness to parents, family ties, neighbours, guests and guarding the tongue, grounded in the Qur'an and authentic hadith.
A complete reference for Muslim men — as a servant of Allah, a son, a husband and a father: rights, duties, etiquette, do's and don'ts, and a self-care guide.
A complete reference for Muslim women — as a servant of Allah, a daughter, a wife and a mother: rights, duties, etiquette, do's and don'ts, and a self-care guide.
Syndicate marriages, border marriages, marriages abroad and marriages never registered — the benefits people see, the real risks to the wife and children, and how to put things right.
Romance scams, fake polygamy agents, marriage syndicates, sextortion, impersonation calls, fake investments and job offers abroad — warning signs, real cases, and what to do in the first 24 hours.
The rights of wives, husbands and children under Islamic family law in Malaysia — marriage and registration, maintenance, polygyny, divorce, custody, protection from violence and inheritance, and how to claim them in the Syariah Court. 9 chapters.
A complete guide to maintenance — maintenance of the wife, children, parents and relatives; the rate and how to assess it, maintenance in polygyny, when maintenance lapses, arrears as a debt, claims after divorce and how to claim in the Syariah Court. 14 chapters.
When polygyny is not advisable — an honest decision aid: conditions, intention, ability, the effect on wives and children, red flags, alternatives and counselling.
For women who are already a second or later wife — equal and full rights, living without secrets, conduct towards the first wife and her children, jealousy, emotional health and what people say.
A practical guide for a husband who wishes to practise polygyny but fears his first wife's reaction — facing that fear honestly and bravely, not through deception or marrying in secret.
For the wife who sincerely wishes to encourage her husband to practise polygyny — easing the burden, guiding her husband with wisdom, and protecting her own rights at the same time.
For the husband who is confident and ready — practising polygyny with justice, honesty and along the correct path, so that both households are preserved and no right is wronged.
A complete guide — praying when ill, the shahadah and talqin for the dying, washing and shrouding the deceased, the funeral prayer, burial, and an evidenced "why this, why that" Q&A.
A Muslim family's guide to the hereafter — death and husnul khatimah, the barzakh, the resurrection and the reckoning, the Garden and the Fire, repentance, the provision of good deeds, and what has to be handled when someone you love dies. 16 chapters.
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