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Fertility, family planning and IVF

Children are a gift from Allah, and striving to have them — or to space them — is permitted within the limits of the Shariah. This page brings together the rulings on 'azl and contraception, abortion, IVF, embryo freezing and pre-marital screening.

⏱ 5 min read§ 9 sections📚 12 sources🗓 Updated: 14 Oct 2026

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📘 What you will learn

Key point: Children are a gift from Allah; striving to have them or to space births is permitted within the limits of the Shariah and with the agreement of husband and wife. Infertility is no disgrace, and examination should involve both spouses, since about half of cases stem from male or combined factors.

This week's practice
  1. Discuss family planning methods with your spouse and doctor
  2. If not yet pregnant after 12 months (6 months if the wife is over 35), get examined together
  3. Avoid blaming your spouse; seek counselling if you feel the strain of fertility problems

At a glance

IVF

Fertility treatment: permissible or forbidden

A third party is forbidden because it mixes lineage.

Harus
  • Only the husband's sperm and the wife's ovum
  • In a valid, subsisting marriage
  • Embryo into the same wife's womb
  • A trusted specialist; avoid mixing samples
  • Frozen embryos for the same couple during the marriage
Haram
  • Donor sperm
  • Donor ovum or embryo
  • Surrogate mother, including a co-wife
  • Embryo transferred after divorce or the husband's death
  • Permanent sterilisation without medical necessity
Key figures

Figures cited on this page

12 monthsNot yet pregnant — both partners should be checked6 months if the wife is over 35
25%Risk of thalassaemia major in each pregnancyIf both partners are carriers
120 daysEnsoulment according to scholarsAfter this, abortion is haram by consensus of the jurists

1Foundations: children as a gift and as an effort

  • Encouragement to have children — "Marry women who are loving and fertile" (narrated by Abu Dawud 2050 and an-Nasa'i; sahih). Preserving lineage (hifz an-nasl) is one of the objectives of the Shariah (maqasid syariah).
  • Allah's decree — "He grants daughters to whom He wills, sons to whom He wills… and makes barren whom He wills" (Surah asy-Syura 42:49–50). Infertility is neither a sin nor a disgrace, whether in a man or a woman.
  • Seeking treatment is permitted — "Allah has not sent down any disease without sending down its cure" (Sahih al-Bukhari 5678). Fertility treatment falls within this effort.
  • The prayer of the prophets — the Prophet Zakaria a.s. prayed for offspring even though his wife was barren (Surah Maryam 19:4–9).
A wife's infertility is among the circumstances the court considers in assessing whether polygyny is 'just or necessary' (Act 303 s.23(4)(a)). However, fertility tests should involve both spouses — about half of cases stem from male or combined factors.

2'Azl and family planning

Jabir r.a. said: "We used to practise 'azl in the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ; news of it reached him and he did not forbid us" (Sahih Muslim, Kitab an-Nikah). In another narration: "…while the Qur'an was still being revealed" (Sahih al-Bukhari 5208; narrated by Muslim).

The hadith of Judamah binti Wahb, which describes 'azl as "hidden infanticide" (Sahih Muslim, Kitab an-Nikah), is understood by the majority as indicating that it is disliked (makruh), not forbidden, when read together with the hadith of Jabir.

SchoolRuling on 'azlWife's permission
Shafi'iPermissible; some say mildly disliked (makruh tanzih)The sounder view: not required, but better with agreement
HanafiHarusThe wife's permission is required (because of her right to children and to intimacy)
MalikiHarusThe wife's permission is required
HanbaliPermissible (makruh without need)The wife's permission is required
The view of most contemporary scholars and the Fatwa Council in Malaysia: modern contraceptive methods (pill, injection, IUD or intrauterine device, condom, implant) are permissible to space births, protect the mother's health or for a reasonable cause, provided they are not permanent, with the agreement of husband and wife and not harmful. They must not be driven by fear of poverty alone (Surah al-Isra' 17:31).

3Permanent sterilisation (vasectomy, tubal ligation)

The majority of contemporary scholars, including the Majma' al-Fiqh al-Islami (OIC) and the fatwa position in Malaysia, hold that permanent sterilisation is forbidden (haram) except in cases of medical necessity — for example where a specialist confirms that a further pregnancy could threaten the mother's life or cause her serious harm.

  • The decision should be made jointly by husband and wife, based on the advice of at least one trusted specialist.
  • If an equally effective temporary option exists, it takes precedence.
  • The National Fatwa Committee Conference No. 12 (20 February 1977) decided that sterilising a man or a woman is haram; that decision does not mention an exception. The Selangor State Fatwa Committee (13 September 2000), for its part, permits tubal ligation in a situation of necessity, and prohibits removing the womb except in a situation of necessity on the advice of a specialist doctor.

4Abortion: stages of pregnancy and differences of opinion

Ibn Mas'ud r.a. narrated that the creation of a human being is gathered in the mother's womb for 40 days as a nutfah, then an 'alaqah, then a mudghah, then the angel is sent to breathe soul into it (Sahih al-Bukhari 3208; Sahih Muslim, Kitab al-Qadar). From this the scholars set ensoulment at 120 days (about 17 weeks from fertilisation).

StageLegal position
Before 40 daysDifference of opinion. Some Hanafis, the Hanbalis and some Syafi'is permit it for a reasonable cause; the Maliki school (authoritative view) and al-Ghazali (Shafi'i) forbid it from fertilisation.
40–120 dStricter; most scholars forbid it except for a strong excuse (for example a serious health threat to the mother, or a severe foetal abnormality confirmed by a specialist).
After 120 daysForbidden (haram) by consensus of the jurists, because the foetus has been ensouled; contemporary scholars make an exception only when continuing the pregnancy threatens the mother's life.
Fatwa decisions in Malaysia — the National Fatwa Committee Muzakarah No. 26 (7–8 March 1990) decided that aborting a foetus is haram except for a severe defect that may endanger the mother's life. Muzakarah No. 52 (1 July 2002) decided, for a foetus that carries or has thalassaemia: abortion is makruh at 1 to 40 days if it does not harm the mother and both spouses agree; permissible before 120 days if the foetus is defective and diseased in a way that may endanger the mother's life; and haram after 120 days except to save the mother's life. For a pregnancy resulting from rape, the same Muzakarah decided it is haram after 120 days except to save the mother's life, and permissible before 120 days only if the foetus is defective and seriously diseased in a way that may endanger the mother's life — rape alone is not given as a ground. Under civil law, s.312 of the Penal Code makes abortion an offence unless performed by a registered medical practitioner who is of the opinion that continuing the pregnancy poses a risk to the mother's life or physical/mental health.

5IVF and fertility treatment

Fertility treatment, including IUI (intrauterine insemination) and IVF (in vitro fertilisation), is permissible on the following conditions, as decided by the Muzakarah of the National Fatwa Committee (No. 5, 16–17 November 1982; see also No. 1, 28–29 January 1981, on sperm banks) and the Majma' al-Fiqh al-Islami (OIC) Resolution No. 16 (4/3), 1986:

  1. Only the husband's sperm and the wife's egg.
  2. Within a valid and still subsisting marriage.
  3. The embryo is placed in the womb of the same wife whose egg it is.
  4. The procedure is carried out by trusted specialists with measures to prevent samples being mixed up.

Uncovering the ʿawrah before a doctor is permitted out of need, with preference for a doctor of the same sex where available.

6What is forbidden: donors and surrogacy

All methods that involve a third party are forbidden because they mix lineage and resemble zina in their effect:

Donor spermForbidden (haram), including from a sperm bank. The child cannot be attributed in lineage (nasab) to the husband.
Donor eggsForbidden (haram), even with the husband's sperm.
Donor embryosForbidden (haram) — both gametes come from other people.
SurrogacyForbidden (haram), including using a co-wife (the husband's other wife) as a surrogate — the position of the National Fatwa Council and the Majma' al-Fiqh al-Islami.
Sex selectionNot permitted for non-medical reasons according to fatwa opinion in Malaysia; permitted to avoid sex-linked genetic disease (check the latest rule with your state Syariah Court).

7Freezing embryos, sperm and eggs

  • Frozen embryos — may be stored for use by the same couple during the marriage.
  • After divorce or the husband's death — it is forbidden (haram) to transfer embryos to the womb of the former wife or widow, because the marriage bond has ended; the pregnancy would no longer take place within a valid marriage. This is the position of the Majma' al-Fiqh al-Islami and of fatwas in Malaysia.
  • During the ʿiddah of a revocable talaq — it is safer to postpone until rujuk has been validly carried out.
  • Surplus embryos — may not be given to another couple or used for unrestricted research; the Majma' al-Fiqh al-Islami (Resolution No. 55 (6/6), 1990) decided that only the number of eggs needed should be fertilised to avoid a surplus, and any surplus that exists is to be left without medical care until its life ends naturally.
  • Freezing eggs/sperm — permissible for married couples, for example before cancer treatment, for use within the same marriage. For unmarried women: the National Fatwa Committee Muzakarah No. 56 (7 May 2003) decided that combining gametes taken before the marriage contract is haram even if they are combined during a valid marriage. According to a BioNews report (31 October 2022), a fatwa in August 2022 specifically prohibits elective egg freezing by unmarried Muslim women; (consult your state mufti's office for the details of the 2022 fatwa).
Couples storing frozen embryos are advised to state in writing with the clinic that the embryos are to be destroyed in the event of divorce or death.

8Pre-marital health and genetic screening

  • HIV screening — required by the state Islamic religious administrations in Malaysia as a procedure before permission to marry; a positive result does not remove the right to marry, but the couple are given counselling.
  • Thalassaemia — Malaysia has a significant carrier rate. If both spouses are carriers, each pregnancy carries a 25% risk of a child with thalassaemia major. Blood screening (FBC, i.e. a full blood count, and haemoglobin analysis) is strongly recommended.
  • Cousin marriage — valid in the Shariah, but genetic counselling is recommended if there is a history of hereditary disease in the family.
  • Ruling — screening is permissible and encouraged as a precaution (sadd adh-dhari'ah, closing the door to harm); it is not a condition for the validity of marriage, and the decision remains with the couple after counselling.

9Practical guidance

  1. Not yet pregnant after 12 months (or 6 months if the wife is over 35) — get both spouses examined.
  2. Choose a clinic that follows Shariah guidelines and ask about its sample-labelling procedures.
  3. Keep a valid marriage certificate — clinics in Malaysia usually ask for it before IVF.
  4. In polygyny, one wife's fertility treatment is funded as part of medical maintenance according to means, without wronging the other wives.
  5. Look after your emotions — infertility causes great strain; seek counselling and avoid blaming your spouse.

Sources & references

Surah asy-Syura 42:49–50; Surah Maryam 19:4–9; Surah al-Isra' 17:31Sahih Muslim, Kitab an-Nikah and Kitab al-QadarSahih al-Bukhari 3208, 5678Sahih al-Bukhari 5208; narrated by Muslim — 'azl while the Qur'an was being revealedNarrated by Abu Dawud 2050 and an-Nasa'i — "al-wadud al-walud" (sahih)Majma' al-Fiqh al-Islami (OIC) Resolution No. 16 (4/3), 1986 — test-tube babiesMuzakarah of the National Fatwa Committee of the National Council for Islamic Religious Affairs Malaysia (JAKIM e-Fatwa portal) — Family planning, No. 12 (20 February 1977); Sperm banks, No. 1 (28–29 January 1981); Test-tube babies, No. 5 (16–17 November 1982); Abortion because of defects, No. 26 (7–8 March 1990); Aborting a foetus that carries or has thalassaemia, and aborting a pregnancy of a rape victim, No. 52 (1 July 2002); Fertilisation to obtain offspring, No. 55 (8 April 2003) and No. 56 (7 May 2003); Surrogacy, No. 80 (1–3 February 2008)Selangor State Mufti Department — Guidelines on Childbirth (decisions of the Selangor State Fatwa Committee, 13 September 2000) — https://www.muftiselangor.gov.my/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/GP-Kelahiran-Anak.pdfMajma' al-Fiqh al-Islami (OIC), Resolution No. 55 (6/6), 1990 — Surplus fertilised ova — https://iifa-aifi.org/en/32411.htmlBioNews (Progress Educational Trust) — New fatwa in Malaysia bans social egg freezing for single Muslim women (31 Oct 2022) — https://www.progress.org.uk/new-fatwa-in-malaysia-bans-social-egg-freezing-for-single-muslim-women/Act 303 s.23Penal Code s.312

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