Apa tanda istikharah jodoh dimakbulkan? Perlu tunggu mimpi?

Tiada syarat perlu bermimpi; jawapan istikharah lazimnya dilihat pada dipermudahkan atau dihalangnya urusan tersebut. Doa istikharah sendiri memohon: jika perkara ini baik, takdirkan dan mudahkanlah; jika buruk, jauhkanlah ia daripadaku dan aku daripadanya. Maka selepas beristikharah, teruskan usaha secara biasa — jika urusan berjalan lancar dan hati tenang, itu petanda baik; jika terhalang, terimalah dengan reda. Mimpi boleh berlaku tetapi bukan ukuran wajib dan tidak boleh mengatasi pertimbangan syarak dan akal. Ingat, kadangkala kita membenci sesuatu sedangkan ia baik bagi kita (al-Baqarah 2:216). Jangan pula menjadikan istikharah alasan menolak calon yang baik tanpa sebab munasabah.

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What is the sign that an istikharah about a spouse has been answered? Must I wait for a dream?

There is no requirement to dream; the answer to istikharah is usually seen in whether the matter is made easy or blocked .
The istikharah supplication itself asks: if this matter is good, decree it and make it easy; if it is bad, turn it away from me and me from it. So after istikharah, carry on with your efforts as usual — if things go smoothly and the heart is at peace, that is a good sign; if it is blocked, accept it with contentment. Dreams may happen but they are not a required measure and cannot override the considerations of the Shariah and reason. Remember, sometimes we dislike a thing while it is good for us (al-Baqarah 2:216). Nor should istikharah be made an excuse to reject a good candidate without reasonable cause.

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Sahih al-Bukhari 1162Surah al-Baqarah 2:216

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