🧭 Persediaan & memilih pasangan · #34
How should a man prepare to be a husband and head of the family?
A man must be ready to carry the family's leadership (qiwamah), maintenance and religious education, not merely the power to make decisions.
Allah made men leaders because of the responsibility of maintenance (an-Nisa' 4:34), and commands protecting oneself and one's family from the Fire (at-Tahrim 66:6). Every leader will be asked about those in his care. Preparation includes: a stable income, knowledge of family fiqh, skill in managing conflict without violence, willingness to help with household matters — the Prophet ﷺ himself helped his family — and the ability to lead the prayer. The best of husbands is the one who is best to his family. See Responsibilities.
Allah made men leaders because of the responsibility of maintenance (an-Nisa' 4:34), and commands protecting oneself and one's family from the Fire (at-Tahrim 66:6). Every leader will be asked about those in his care. Preparation includes: a stable income, knowledge of family fiqh, skill in managing conflict without violence, willingness to help with household matters — the Prophet ﷺ himself helped his family — and the ability to lead the prayer. The best of husbands is the one who is best to his family. See Responsibilities.
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Surah an-Nisa' 4:34Surah at-Tahrim 66:6Sahih al-Bukhari 893Sahih Muslim 1829Jami' at-Tirmidhi 3895 (sahih)