Saya mahu kahwin supaya lepas daripada masalah keluarga. Betul ke tindakan ini?

Berkahwin untuk lari daripada masalah bukan niat yang kukuh ; perkahwinan membawa tanggungjawab baharu, bukan penyelesaian automatik. Setiap amalan bergantung pada niat, dan keputusan sebesar perkahwinan perlu dibuat dengan fikiran tenang. Jika anda berdepan penderaan atau tekanan serius di rumah, dapatkan bantuan secara langsung — saudara yang dipercayai, kaunselor, atau pihak berkuasa — dan bukannya bergantung pada perkahwinan tergesa-gesa yang boleh mendedahkan anda kepada risiko baharu. Jika anda memang bersedia dan calon itu baik, perkahwinan boleh menjadi jalan keluar yang sah; pastikan pilihan itu berasaskan agama, akhlak dan kesediaan, bukan desakan keadaan. Lihat Kaunseling .

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🧭 Persediaan & memilih pasangan · #37

I want to marry to escape family problems. Is this the right course?

Marrying to escape problems is not a firm intention; marriage brings new responsibilities, not an automatic solution.
Every deed depends on its intention, and a decision as big as marriage should be made with a calm mind. If you are facing abuse or serious pressure at home, seek help directly — a trusted relative, a counsellor, or the authorities — rather than relying on a hasty marriage that may expose you to new risks. If you are genuinely ready and the candidate is good, marriage can be a legitimate way out; make sure the choice is based on religion, character and readiness, not the pressure of circumstances. See Counselling.

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Sahih al-Bukhari 1Sahih Muslim 1907Surah al-Baqarah 2:195

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