Apa persediaan seorang lelaki sebelum berkahwin kali kedua?

Lelaki perlu memastikan dirinya mampu berlaku adil dari segi nafkah, giliran dan tempat tinggal, serta memenuhi prosedur undang-undang sebelum berpoligami. Allah mengizinkan poligami tetapi memerintahkan berkahwin seorang sahaja jika bimbang tidak dapat berlaku adil (an-Nisa' 4:3). Nabi ﷺ memberi amaran bahawa suami yang cenderung kepada seorang isteri akan datang pada hari kiamat dalam keadaan sebelah badannya senget. Persediaan: menilai kewangan untuk dua rumah tangga, menilai niat, berterus terang dengan isteri sedia ada dan mendengar kebimbangannya, menimbang kesan kepada anak-anak, dan memohon kebenaran Mahkamah Syariah (Akta 303, s.23). Lihat Syarat , Poligami di Malaysia dan kalkulator .

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How should a man prepare before marrying a second time?

A man must make sure he is able to be just in maintenance, the rotation of nights and housing, and fulfil the legal procedure before taking another wife.
Allah permits polygyny but commands marrying only one if one fears being unable to be just (an-Nisa' 4:3). The Prophet ﷺ warned that a husband who inclines towards one wife will come on the Day of Judgement with one side of his body leaning. Preparation: assess the finances for two households, examine your intention, be frank with the existing wife and listen to her concerns, weigh the effect on the children, and apply for Syariah Court permission (Act 303, s.23). See Conditions, Polygyny in Malaysia and the calculator.

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Surah an-Nisa' 4:3Surah an-Nisa' 4:129narrated by Abu Dawud (sahih)Act 303, s.23

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How should a woman prepare before becoming a wife?A woman needs to be prepared with knowledge of her rights and responsibilities, emotional stability, and an understanding of married life…How should a man prepare to be a husband and head of the family?A man must be ready to carry the family's leadership (qiwamah), maintenance and religious education, not merely the power to make de…How do I prepare emotionally before marrying?Emotional preparation means being able to manage feelings, communicate and compromise — because marriage unites two…What knowledge must be learnt before marriage?Before marrying, a person must know the personal religious obligations (fardu ain) relating to the married life they are about to…How much money should be saved before marrying?There is no fixed amount in Syariah; what is obligatory is only the mahr and the ability to provide maintenance, while the cost of the reception depends on cus…Can persons with disabilities (OKU) marry? What should be prepared?Yes, persons with disabilities have the same right to marry as anyone else; a physical disability does not bar marriage. The conditions are the same: sound mind, consent and…

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