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My spouse gambles online. How do I protect the family's money from being affected?

Protect the family's basic needs first by separating the money you manage from funds that can be reached for gambling. Make sure the money for the children's expenses, rent and food is kept somewhere safe. Keep records and avoid guaranteeing or taking on new debts made for gambling, because that only opens the way to more debt. Talk calmly about the problem and encourage your spouse to get counselling and debt-management help such as AKPK. Gambling is an addiction that needs treatment, not just advice. Protect your spouse's dignity while still protecting the family. See family finances.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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