🕊️ Conflict & resolution · #226

My spouse is addicted to drugs and I am worried about the children's safety. What should I do?

The children's safety must come before any effort to help your spouse recover. If the children are in danger or you are threatened, call the police on 999 immediately, and Talian Kasih 15999 for advice and protection. Keep the children away from dangerous situations, and get support from family you trust. Keep important documents safe and plan a safe place for the children in case things get worse. For addiction treatment, refer to a rehabilitation centre or the National Anti-Drugs Agency (AADK). Protecting your children does not mean you do not love your spouse; it is your responsibility as a mother or father. See family protection.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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