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🧭 Preparation & choosing a spouse · #11

How do I know I'm ready to marry?

You can be considered ready when you have the capacity (al-ba'ah) in knowledge, emotions, physical health and finances to bear the responsibilities of a household.
Ask yourself: Do I understand the rights and responsibilities of husband and wife? Can I provide basic maintenance (or, for women, am I prepared for my role and rights)? Can I control my anger, compromise and apologise? Am I free of addictions or burdensome debts? Has the family been told? Being ready does not mean being perfect; it means being willing to learn and to take responsibility. The Prophet ﷺ linked the command to marry with having the capacity. See the Guide for the full checklist.

Sources

Sahih al-Bukhari 5066Sahih Muslim, Kitab an-NikahSurah at-Tahrim 66:6
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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