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How do I know I'm ready to marry?

You can be considered ready when you have the capacity (al-ba'ah) in knowledge, emotions, physical health and finances to bear the responsibilities of a household.
Ask yourself: Do I understand the rights and responsibilities of husband and wife? Can I provide basic maintenance (or, for women, am I prepared for my role and rights)? Can I control my anger, compromise and apologise? Am I free of addictions or burdensome debts? Has the family been told? Being ready does not mean being perfect; it means being willing to learn and to take responsibility. The Prophet ﷺ linked the command to marry with having the capacity. See the Guide for the full checklist.

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Sahih al-Bukhari 5066Sahih Muslim 1400Surah at-Tahrim 66:6
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