Suami tidak adil dalam giliran dan nafkah. Apa isteri boleh buat?

Isteri berhak menegur, meminta keadilan, dan jika tidak berubah, membawa aduan ke Pejabat Agama atau Mahkamah Syariah. Keadilan dalam giliran bermalam dan nafkah adalah wajib bagi suami berpoligami (4:3), walaupun kecenderungan hati tidak dituntut sama rata (4:129). Mulakan dengan berbincang secara tenang dan spesifik — catat tarikh dan fakta. Jika gagal, minta campur tangan keluarga yang dipercayai atau kaunselor. Mahkamah boleh memerintahkan nafkah, dan di bawah enakmen negeri, ketidakadilan terhadap isteri boleh menjadi kesalahan serta asas tuntutan fasakh dalam keadaan tertentu. Lihat Mengurus giliran , Nafkah dan Talak & cerai .

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The husband is unfair in the rotation and maintenance. What can the wife do?

The wife has the right to raise it, ask for fairness and, if nothing changes, take a complaint to the religious affairs office or the Syariah Court.
Fairness in the rotation of nights and in maintenance is obligatory for a polygynous husband (4:3), even though equal inclination of the heart is not required (4:129). Start by discussing it calmly and specifically — note down dates and facts. If that fails, ask a trusted family member or a counsellor to intervene. The court can order maintenance, and under state enactments, unfair treatment of a wife can be an offence and, in certain circumstances, grounds for a fasakh claim. See Managing the rotation, Maintenance (nafkah) and Talaq & divorce.

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Surah an-Nisa' 4:3Surah an-Nisa' 4:129Surah an-Nisa' 4:128State Islamic Family Law Enactment

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