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My ex-husband is challenging my custody because I have a long-term illness. Does illness cancel hadhanah?

A chronic illness does not necessarily cancel custody (hadhanah); what is assessed is whether you can still care for your child well. Many parents with conditions such as diabetes, autoimmune disease or controlled depression remain excellent carers. Prepare a doctor's report showing that your illness is under control and that you follow your treatment. Also show the support system you have, such as family who help when you are unwell. Being honest about your limitations is better than hiding them. Focus on a concrete plan for your child's comfort and safety. For the legal position in your case, discuss it with a syarie lawyer. See also hadhanah (custody).
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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