🏡 Rights & responsibilities · #255

My wife has a lot of cravings during pregnancy. Am I obliged to satisfy every one?

Meeting your pregnant wife's reasonable wishes is part of treating her well, even though not every one must be fulfilled. A father's obligation is to feed and clothe the mother in a proper manner, so looking after the comfort and appetite of a pregnant wife falls within that kindness. Fulfil what you can, in moderation, and explain gently if something is beyond your means or harmful to her health. Do not make it a subject of complaints or hurtful jokes. Intend every small act of care as charity and support for a wife who is carrying a great trust. See responsibilities of husband and wife.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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