Our closeness has long been neglected because of illness and stress. How do we start again without it feeling awkward?

Reviving long-neglected closeness is like watering a dried-out plant; it needs patience and small, consistent steps. Do not expect to go straight back to how things were; start with light closeness such as talking, holding hands and spending time together. Discuss honestly what caused the distance, without blame. If the cause is health, see a doctor; if it is emotional, consider counselling. Appreciate every small step towards closeness again. Feeling awkward at first is normal and will pass with time. What matters is that both of you are sincere about drawing close again. See intimacy etiquette.