Isteri nak balik rumah ibu bapa, perlukah izin suami?

Menurut mazhab Syafi'i, isteri perlu izin suami untuk keluar rumah termasuk menziarahi ibu bapa, tetapi suami tidak wajar menghalang tanpa sebab munasabah. Silaturahim dengan ibu bapa adalah wajib dan memutuskannya berdosa besar. Oleh itu, suami yang menghalang isteri menziarahi ibu bapanya tanpa alasan syarie telah bertindak tidak makruf. Jika ibu bapa sakit tenat atau memerlukan, ramai ulama berpendapat isteri boleh pergi walaupun suami enggan. Amalan terbaik ialah persetujuan awal tentang jadual ziarah dan berkongsi giliran hari raya dengan adil. Lihat Hak suami & isteri .

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A wife wants to visit her parents' home: does she need her husband's permission?

According to the Shafi'i school, a wife needs her husband's permission to leave the house, including to visit her parents, but the husband should not prevent it without reasonable cause.
Maintaining ties with parents is obligatory and cutting them is a major sin. So a husband who prevents his wife from visiting her parents without a Shariah-recognised reason has acted wrongly. If the parents are gravely ill or in need, many scholars hold that the wife may go even if the husband refuses. The best practice is early agreement on a visiting schedule and sharing Hari Raya turns fairly. See Rights of husband & wife.

Difference between schools. Hanafi: a wife is entitled to visit her parents once a week even without her husband's permission. Shafi'i and Hanbali: permission is needed, but it is disliked for the husband to prevent her.

Sumber

Surah an-Nisa' 4:1Surah Muhammad 47:22-23Surah an-Nisa' 4:19

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