🤝 Existing wife & prospective wife · #153
I am a second wife who is pregnant and often alone, especially on days that are not my turn. What should I do?
Pregnancy calls for support, so arrange help early so that you do not carry everything alone. Discuss with your husband the extra needs during pregnancy, such as someone to accompany you to the clinic and help at home, because caring for a pregnant wife is part of his responsibility. Reach out to relatives, neighbours or friends who can keep you company on days your husband is away. Look after your health with regular check-ups and enough rest, and share your worries with your doctor. Fill your time alone with worship and preparations for the baby so your heart is calmer. If you feel very sad or anxious for a long time, get professional help. See mental health.