Boleh ke bahagia kalau kahwin tanpa cinta?

Boleh; ramai pasangan membina cinta selepas berkahwin, kerana kasih sayang dalam rumah tangga dijadikan oleh Allah, bukan semata-mata dibawa dari awal. Allah berfirman bahawa Dia menjadikan antara suami isteri mawaddah dan rahmah (ar-Rum 30:21). Namun perlu ada asas: persetujuan yang ikhlas tanpa paksaan, rasa hormat, tiada rasa benci atau jijik, serta keserasian nilai. Islam menggalakkan melihat bakal pasangan supaya timbul rasa tertarik. Cinta yang berkekalan dibina melalui layanan baik, komunikasi, kesabaran dan ibadah bersama. Sebaliknya, cinta yang membuta tuli tanpa menilai agama dan akhlak boleh pudar dengan cepat.

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Can one be happy marrying without love?

Yes; many couples build love after marrying, because affection in a marriage is made by Allah, not merely brought along from the start.
Allah says that He placed between husband and wife mawaddah (affection) and rahmah (mercy) (ar-Rum 30:21). But there must be a foundation: sincere consent without coercion, respect, no feelings of hatred or revulsion, and compatible values. Islam encourages seeing a prospective spouse so that attraction can arise. Lasting love is built through kind treatment, communication, patience and worship together. Conversely, blind love that does not weigh religion and character can fade quickly.

Sumber

Surah ar-Rum 30:21Sahih al-Bukhari 5136Surah an-Nisa' 4:19

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