Bakal pasangan menghidap penyakit kronik. Patutkah saya teruskan?

Harus meneruskan perkahwinan jika anda mengetahui keadaannya dan reda ; menerima pasangan yang sakit dengan ikhlas adalah amalan mulia. Yang penting ialah ketelusan: anda berhak mengetahui keadaan sebenar, prognosis, kos rawatan dan kesannya kepada kehidupan berkeluarga, termasuk kesuburan dan risiko kepada anak. Berjumpalah doktor bersama untuk mendapat gambaran sebenar. Pertimbangkan kemampuan emosi dan kewangan anda sebagai penjaga, serta sokongan keluarga. Jika penyakit itu berjangkit, ambil langkah pencegahan yang dinasihatkan. Allah tidak membebani seseorang melainkan sesuai kemampuannya (al-Baqarah 2:286) — buat keputusan dengan jujur kepada diri sendiri, bukan kerana tekanan atau rasa bersalah.

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My future spouse has a chronic illness. Should I go ahead?

It is permissible to proceed with the marriage if you know their condition and accept it willingly; sincerely accepting a spouse who is ill is a noble deed.
What matters is transparency: you have the right to know the actual condition, the prognosis, the cost of treatment and its effect on family life, including fertility and risks to children. See a doctor together to get a true picture. Consider your emotional and financial capacity as a carer, and the support of your family. If the illness is infectious, take the preventive steps advised. Allah does not burden a soul beyond its capacity (al-Baqarah 2:286) — make your decision honestly with yourself, not out of pressure or guilt.

Sumber

Surah al-Baqarah 2:286Surah al-Baqarah 2:195

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