Bahagian mana yang boleh dilihat pada wanita yang dipinang? Bolehkah tanpa tudung?

Menurut mazhab Syafi'i, yang boleh dilihat hanyalah muka dan kedua-dua tapak tangan; wanita tidak perlu membuka tudung. Muka menggambarkan rupa paras, manakala tangan menggambarkan keadaan tubuh, dan itu sudah memadai untuk membuat keputusan. Melihat aurat selain itu tetap haram kerana pasangan belum bernikah. Melihat mesti di hadapan mahram atau orang lain (tiada khalwat), tanpa sentuhan, dan disertai niat serius untuk berkahwin. Permintaan supaya wanita membuka tudung, menghantar gambar tanpa tudung, atau "trial" berpakaian tertentu tidak dibenarkan dalam mazhab yang diamalkan di Malaysia. Jika ragu tentang sesuatu ciri fizikal, boleh bertanya melalui wanita yang dipercayai daripada keluarga sendiri. Lihat khitbah .

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Which parts of a woman being proposed to may be seen? May it be without a headscarf?

According to the Shafi'i school, only the face and both palms may be seen; the woman need not remove her headscarf.
The face shows her looks, while the hands show her build, and that is enough to make a decision. Looking at any other part of the ʿawrah remains forbidden because the couple are not yet married. The viewing must be in the presence of a mahram or others (no khalwat), without touching, and with a serious intention to marry. Asking a woman to remove her headscarf, send photos without a headscarf, or do a "trial" in certain clothes is not permitted in the school practised in Malaysia. If in doubt about some physical feature, one may ask through a trusted woman from one's own family. See khitbah.

Difference between schools. The Hanafi, Maliki and Shafi'i schools limit it to the face and palms (some Hanafis add the feet). The Hanbali school permits the parts usually visible at home such as the neck, hands and feet.

Sumber

Sunan at-Tirmidhi 1087 (hasan)Sahih Muslim 1424Surah an-Nur 24:31

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