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⚖️ Poligami: hukum & keadilan · #39

The husband is seriously ill. Whose house should he stay at?

A sick husband must still keep the rotation of nights if he is able; if he cannot move about, he may stay at one wife's house with the permission of the other wives.
When the Prophet ﷺ was ill before his death, he asked "where will I be tomorrow?" hoping for Aisha's turn, and his wives then allowed him to be nursed in the house of Aisha RA (narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim). This shows the rotation is still kept during illness, and that the wives' agreement can change it. The other wives may visit and help with his care. If there is no agreement, the choice can be made by drawing lots. See Fiqh of polygyny.

Sumber

Sahih al-Bukhari — Aisha's hadith on the Prophet's ﷺ illnessSahih Muslim — Aisha's hadith on the Prophet's ﷺ illness
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Jawapan ini rujukan umum, bukan fatwa. Untuk keadaan anda, rujuk pejabat agama, peguam syarie atau Mahkamah Syariah negeri.

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