Bolehkah suami singgah ke rumah isteri lain pada hari giliran madunya?

Pada siang hari, suami boleh singgah sebentar untuk keperluan seperti menghantar barang atau melihat anak; pada waktu malam, hanya untuk keperluan mendesak seperti isteri sakit tenat. Aisyah RA menceritakan bahawa Nabi ﷺ biasa melawat semua isterinya pada siang hari tanpa bersama mereka, sehingga sampai kepada isteri yang empunya giliran lalu bermalam di sisinya (riwayat Abu Dawud, hasan). Dalam mazhab Syafi'i, jika suami masuk ke rumah isteri lain pada malam giliran tanpa darurat dan lama di sana, dia wajib menggantikan masa itu. Jimak dengan isteri lain pada giliran madunya tidak dibenarkan. Lihat Mengurus giliran .

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⚖️ Poligami: hukum & keadilan · #35

Can a husband drop in at another wife's house on her co-wife's day?

During the day, the husband may drop in briefly for needs such as delivering things or seeing the children; at night, only for urgent needs such as a wife who is gravely ill.
Aisha RA related that the Prophet ﷺ used to visit all his wives during the day without being intimate with them, until he reached the wife whose turn it was and spent the night with her (narrated by Abu Dawud, hasan). In the Shafi'i school, if a husband enters another wife's house on a turn night without necessity and stays long there, he must make up that time. Intercourse with another wife on her co-wife's turn is not permitted. See Managing the rotation.

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Narrated by Abu Dawud (hasan) — Aisha's hadithSurah an-Nisa' 4:129

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