My spouse and I are both Muslim but were raised with different religious practices and cultures. How do we bring them together?

Differences in practice and culture between two Muslim families can be brought together with knowledge and respect, not by blaming one side. Distinguish between the agreed fundamentals of the religion and secondary matters where there is room for differing views. Learn together from trusted sources so that your practice is built on knowledge, not merely inherited custom. Respect your spouse's background and do not insist that your family's way is the only right one. For confusing questions of scholarly difference (khilaf), consult a reputable teacher. Focus on the shared goal: an obedient and peaceful household. See communication & emotions.