My husband comes from a neighbouring country and used to work as a labourer. My family often looks down on him. What should I do?

Defend your husband's dignity calmly and firmly, because he is now part of your family. Snide remarks about his origins or work hurt, and if left alone they can drive the two of you apart. Speak privately with the most influential family member, not in front of everyone. For example: ‘I chose him for his religion and his sense of responsibility. I hope he will be treated like the other sons-in-law.’ Tell them about your husband's good qualities that they have not yet seen. At the same time, do not make your husband a point of dispute every time the family gathers; bring him to family functions so that they get to know him themselves. See in-laws.