We have retired, and our children who live abroad are inviting us to live with them. Should we go?

Consider it carefully, because moving in your golden years changes your health, friendships and independence all at once. Your children's invitation is a sign of love, but living in another country means a different language, climate, cost of treatment and mosque atmosphere. Try living there for a few months first before selling your house or deciding permanently. Discuss openly with your children and their spouses matters of private space, your role in caring for grandchildren, and expenses. Check the residence permit conditions and health coverage for senior citizens in that country. Keep your ties with friends and your congregation in Malaysia so that you still have somewhere to come back to. See family finances.