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My wife wants to bring her elderly mother from her home country to live with us in Malaysia. What needs to be prepared?

Prepare a valid residence permit, a healthcare plan, and comfortable space in your household. Ask the Immigration Department about the type of pass suitable for foreign parents and its duration. Treatment costs for foreigners are usually higher, so plan health coverage or special savings. Discuss space, caregiving tasks and expenses together, so that no one is silently overburdened. A mother who moves in old age may also be lonely; introduce her to the mosque congregation or friends of her age who speak her language. Helping your wife serve her mother is a kindness that will be remembered, and it brings two families closer. See devotion to parents.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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