My spouse is jealous of everyone I follow or like on social media. What should I do?

A little jealousy is a sign of caring, but jealousy that controls every move online points to a wound in trust that needs healing. Start by understanding their feelings, not by defending yourself straight away; something may have triggered it. At the same time, you have a right to reasonable space without being interrogated all the time. Discuss the boundaries you are both comfortable with: what is reasonable and what hurts. Show openness so that suspicion does not grow, but do not give in to excessive control. If the jealousy becomes suffocating monitoring and does not ease, see a counsellor together. Trust is built by two people, not demanded by one. See communication & emotions.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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