I have started to feel attracted to someone at work even though I am married. What should I do?

Distance yourself immediately before the feeling grows; an attraction given no room will wither by itself. Reduce meetings and personal conversations with that person, and avoid being alone together. Do not take pride in or play with that feeling, because it is a doorway to betrayal. Redirect your energy into renewing closeness with your spouse at home. Pray often for protection and strength. If it is hard to contain, consider changing your work arrangements or seeking advice. Guarding your heart today saves your marriage tomorrow. See mental health.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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