An ex has contacted me again through social media. What should I do to protect my marriage?

The safest way is to close that door firmly before old feelings stir again. Replying just for a ‘friendly chat’ often opens a space you will not be able to control later. There is no need to be rude; simply do not respond, or say politely that you now have a family and want to protect it. Block or unfriend if necessary for your peace of mind. Consider telling your spouse so there are no secrets to erode trust. Turn your attention and affection to your spouse. The past is past; do not let it threaten the blessing in front of you. See everyday adab.

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