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How can husband and wife stay close throughout the pregnancy?

Pregnancy changes many things, but closeness can be kept through attention, gentleness and open communication. Tiredness, nausea and bodily changes alter some aspects of intimacy; accept this together without blame. Show love through small things: going with her to check-ups, massaging swollen feet, and complimenting a wife who may feel less confident about her body. Make time to talk about your hopes for the baby to come. As for intimate relations during pregnancy, they are basically permitted; discuss it gently and consult a doctor if there are health concerns. Closeness kept now makes recovery after childbirth easier. See everyday adab.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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