Isteri pertama lebih banyak hak sebab dia lebih lama berkahwin?

Tidak — dalam giliran dan nafkah asas, semua isteri sama tanpa mengira siapa lebih dahulu atau lebih lama. Satu-satunya pengecualian ialah tempoh permulaan untuk isteri baharu: tujuh malam jika dia anak dara dan tiga malam jika janda, sebelum giliran biasa bermula. Selepas itu, setiap isteri mendapat bahagian yang sama. Walau bagaimanapun, jasa isteri pertama yang telah lama bersama wajar dihargai dengan kata-kata dan layanan baik, kerana Allah menyuruh kita tidak melupakan kebaikan sesama pasangan. Lihat fiqh poligami .

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Does the first wife have more rights because she has been married longer?

No — in the rotation of nights and basic maintenance, all wives are equal regardless of who came first or has been married longer. The only exception is the opening period for a new wife: seven nights if she is a virgin and three nights if previously married, before the normal rotation begins. After that, each wife receives an equal share. Even so, the contribution of a first wife who has been with her husband for a long time deserves to be appreciated with kind words and treatment, because Allah tells us not to forget the kindness between spouses. See fiqh of polygyny.

Difference between schools. The Hanafi school gives no special opening nights to a new wife; the majority (Shafi'i, Maliki, Hanbali) give seven nights to a virgin and three to a previously married woman.

Sumber

Sahih al-Bukhari 5213Surah al-Baqarah 2:237Surah an-Nisa' 4:3

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