🤝 Existing wife & prospective wife · #161

How can I nurture contentment with my share as a second wife?

Contentment comes when you stop measuring your life by what others have, and start being grateful for what Allah has given you. Allah reminds us: “And do not covet that in which Allah has favoured some of you over others” (Surah an-Nisa' 4:32). List the blessings in your life: faith, health, perhaps children, and a lawful husband. Focus on building good within your own share, not lamenting the share of others. This is not denying the rights that must be claimed, but protecting your heart from endless suffering. A grateful heart finds its provision feels ample even when it is little. See mental health.

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Surah an-Nisa' 4:32

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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