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⚖️ Poligami: hukum & keadilan · #26

May the first and second wives live in the same house?

It is allowed if both wives are truly willing, and each has her own room and privacy.
Separate accommodation is the wife's right, so she may waive it willingly (not under pressure). Nevertheless, the husband must protect each wife's modesty and privacy, may not be intimate with one wife in the presence of another, and must be ready to provide separate accommodation if either withdraws her consent or conflict arises. The experience of many families shows that living separately reduces friction more. Discuss it openly, and if problems arise, seek counselling. See also Maintenance.

Sumber

Surah at-Talaq 65:6Surah an-Nisa' 4:19
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Jawapan ini rujukan umum, bukan fatwa. Untuk keadaan anda, rujuk pejabat agama, peguam syarie atau Mahkamah Syariah negeri.

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