💰 Family finances · #68

My spouse took out loans and debts in my name without my knowledge or consent. What should I do?

Taking on debt in your name without your consent is financial abuse and can also be an offence under the law. You should not have to carry a burden you never agreed to. Gather every loan document and letter you find as evidence. If there are threats or you feel unsafe, call the police on 999, and Talian Kasih 15999 for support. Get advice from Legal Aid or a lawyer about your options, and inform the banks involved. The Credit Counselling and Debt Management Agency (AKPK) can also help restructure the debt situation. See family finances.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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