🧭 Preparation & choosing a spouse · #2
When is marriage obligatory for a person?
Marriage becomes obligatory when a person is able, financially and physically, to provide maintenance and fears falling into zina if he does not marry.
The Prophet ﷺ advised the young: whoever is able (al-ba'ah) should marry, for it lowers the gaze better and guards chastity; whoever is not able should fast. Guarding oneself from zina is obligatory, and whatever leads to an obligation is also required. However, if a person cannot yet bear the cost of maintenance, he is told to preserve his chastity (an-Nur 24:33) while striving. If you are in this situation, discuss it with your family and use the cost calculator to plan.
The Prophet ﷺ advised the young: whoever is able (al-ba'ah) should marry, for it lowers the gaze better and guards chastity; whoever is not able should fast. Guarding oneself from zina is obligatory, and whatever leads to an obligation is also required. However, if a person cannot yet bear the cost of maintenance, he is told to preserve his chastity (an-Nur 24:33) while striving. If you are in this situation, discuss it with your family and use the cost calculator to plan.
Differences between the schools. The Hanafi, Maliki and Hanbali schools state clearly that marriage is obligatory for one who fears zina and is able; the Shafi'i school keeps the basic ruling of recommended but makes it obligatory when zina cannot be avoided without marriage.
Sources
Sahih al-Bukhari 5066Sahih Muslim, Kitab an-NikahSurah an-Nur 24:33