🌍 Children, inheritance & global · #100

My ex-husband did not return our child after the visit. What should I do?

Contact him calmly first; if the child is still not returned, take the matter to the authorities and the Syariah Court. Sometimes a delay comes from a misunderstanding about the schedule, so start with a clear written message. If he refuses to return the child and you have a custody (hadhanah) order, keep a copy of it and make a police report. If you fear the child is in danger, call the police on 999 immediately. Talian Kasih 15999 can give advice and support. After that, file an application to enforce the order at the Syariah Court. Do not retaliate by blocking the next visits without an order; let the court decide. See hadhanah (custody).

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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