🧒 Raising children (tarbiyah) · #159

My teenager once said he does not want to live any more. What should I do?

Your child's safety comes before everything, and words about wanting to die or end his life must be taken seriously at once. If your child is in danger, call the police on 999 immediately. Sit with him, listen without judging or shouting, and do not leave him alone while he is in this state. Remove anything that could harm him. Tell him his feelings matter and that you will get help together with him. Call Talian Kasih on 15999 for support, and take him to see a doctor or counsellor as soon as possible for a professional assessment. You do not have to face this alone. See mental health.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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