🧒 Raising children (tarbiyah) · #199

I found out my child is being contacted by a stranger online. What should I do?

Take this seriously at once, because online predators often lure children by seeming friendly first. If your child is in danger or has been threatened, coaxed into doing something sexual, or deceived, call the police on 999, and get support through Talian Kasih on 15999. Keep evidence of the conversations and do not delete them. Talk with your child calmly so that he is not afraid to be open; do not blame him, because guilt makes him hide what happens next. Set privacy settings, block that person, and monitor with love, not with spying that destroys trust. Teach your child to come to you whenever something is wrong. See the family's digital life.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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