My husband has just told me he wants to marry again. What should I do in these first two days?

In these first moments, your goal is not to make big decisions, but to protect yourself from saying or doing something you will regret. News like this shocks both body and mind, so give yourself room to breathe before any long discussion. Tell your husband you need a little time to take it in before talking further; that is your right. Do not make hasty decisions such as asking for a divorce or throwing harsh words when emotions are at their peak. Contact a trustworthy person to keep you company, look after your sleep and eat what you can, and pray a great deal. Important decisions are made later, with a calmer heart. See existing wife.