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Talaq, khulʿ, fasakh and forms of divorce

A comprehensive guide to talaq in Shafi'i fiqh and the other schools — its pillars, wording, the types of talaq, khulʿ, fasakh, li'an, zihar and ila' — and divorce procedure in Malaysia's Syariah Courts.

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📘 What you will learn

Key point: Talaq is a last resort; it takes effect even in jest or by message, and it must be handled through the Syariah Court. A wife has the routes of khulʿ, judicial dissolution (fasakh) and taʿliq, as well as rights to ʿiddah maintenance, mut'ah, jointly acquired matrimonial property and custody (hadhanah) after divorce.

This week's practice
  1. Agree with your spouse never to say anything related to talaq in anger
  2. Note your post-divorce rights (ʿiddah maintenance, mut'ah, jointly acquired matrimonial property) so that you know where you stand
  3. If the marriage is drifting apart, seek sulh or hakam services before thinking about divorce

At a glance

Effects of talaq

Talaq raj'i, ba'in sughra and ba'in kubra

TypeCan he return (rujuk) during the ʿiddah?Remarrying
Raj'i✓ Yes, without a new contract and without the wife's consent—
Ba'in sughra✗ No~ With a new contract and mahr
Ba'in kubra✗ No✗ Not lawful until the wife marries another, the marriage is consummated, they divorce and the ʿiddah ends
Forms of divorce

Routes to separation other than talaq

KhulʿAt the wife's request, for payment (iwad); the husband cannot take her back.
FasakhDissolution by a judge on Syariah grounds (Act 303 s.52); not counted as a talaq.
Li'anFour oaths and a fifth invoking a curse; a permanent separation according to the majority.
ZiharLikening one's wife to one's mother; intercourse is forbidden until kaffarah is paid.
Ila'An oath not to have intercourse with one's wife; a four-month period is given.

1The pillars of talaq and its wording

Talaq is releasing the marriage bond with specific words. Allah permits it as a last resort, not a first choice: "Divorce (that can be revoked) is twice; after that, either take her back in a good manner or release her in a good manner" (Surah al-Baqarah 2:229).

According to the Shafi'i school, talaq has five pillars:

  1. The husband pronouncing it — adult, of sound mind and acting of his own will (not coerced).
  2. Wife — who are still within the marriage bond, including one in the ʿiddah of a revocable talaq (raj'i).
  3. Sighah (wording) — speech, writing, or the understood sign language of a mute person.
  4. Intention (qasad) — deliberately uttering the words (not a slip of the tongue or saying someone else's name).
  5. Province — the husband has authority over that wife.
Type of wordingExampleRulings
Sarih (explicit)"I divorce you", "You are divorced"Talaq takes effect even without intention, because the wording is explicit
Kinayah (indirect wording)"Go back to your family's home", "There is nothing left between us"Talaq takes effect only if talaq is intended; otherwise there is no talaq
A talaq pronounced in jest still takes effect. Hadith: "Three things are serious when said seriously and serious when said in jest: marriage, talaq and revocation (rujuk)" — narrated by Abu Dawud 2194 and at-Tirmidhi 1184; graded hasan by at-Tirmidhi.

2Sunni talaq and bid'i talaq

In terms of timing, scholars divide talaq into:

  • Sunni talaq — pronounced while the wife is in a state of purity in which relations have not taken place, one talaq only. This is the way that accords with Allah's words: "divorce them at a time when they can begin their ʿiddah" (Surah at-Talaq 65:1).
  • Talaq bid'i — pronounced while the wife is menstruating or in post-natal bleeding, or in a state of purity in which relations have taken place. It is forbidden and sinful.
  • Neither sunni nor bid'i — for a wife with whom the marriage has not been consummated, who is pregnant, who has not yet menstruated, or who has reached menopause.

In the hadith of Ibn Umar, who divorced his wife while she was menstruating, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ told him to take her back (Sahih al-Bukhari 5251; Sahih Muslim, Kitab at-Talaq). The majority of scholars of the four schools hold that a bid'i talaq still takes effect although it is sinful; Ibn Taymiyyah and Ibn al-Qayyim held that it does not take effect.

3Revocable (raj'i) and irrevocable (ba'in) talaq

In terms of its effect, talaq is divided into two:

TypeWhen it happensEffect
Raj'iFirst or second talaq after consummation, not for paymentThe husband may revoke (rujuk) during the ʿiddah without a new contract and without the wife's consent
Ba'in sughraTalaq before consummation; khulʿ; a revocable talaq whose ʿiddah has endedNo revocation; they may remarry with a new contract and mahr
Ba'in kubraThird talaqIt is not lawful to remarry until the wife has validly married another man, the marriage has been consummated, and then they have divorced and her ʿiddah has ended (Surah al-Baqarah 2:230)
A "cina buta" marriage (nikah tahlil) arranged solely to make the wife lawful again for her former husband is forbidden. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ cursed the muhallil (the man who marries in order to make her lawful) and the muhallal lahu (the former husband for whom she is made lawful) — narrated by Abu Dawud, at-Tirmidhi and others; graded sahih/hasan by many hadith scholars.

4Triple talaq in a single pronouncement

If a husband says "I divorce you with three talaqs" in one sitting, there are two main views:

Majority — three take effectThe view of the Hanafi, Maliki, Shafi'i and Hanbali schools: three talaqs take effect and the wife becomes irrevocably divorced (ba'in kubra). They rely, among other things, on the ruling of Sayyidina Umar r.a., who enforced it as three.
Second view — one takes effectThe view of Ibn Taymiyyah and Ibn al-Qayyim, adopted by some fatwa councils and by the family laws of several Muslim countries. Its proof is the hadith of Ibn Abbas: in the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, Abu Bakar and the first two years of Umar's rule, a triple talaq was counted as one (Sahih Muslim, Kitab at-Talaq).
In Malaysia, It is the Syariah Court that decides the number of talaqs that have taken effect, based on the evidence and the Islamic law applied in the state concerned. Do not make your own assumptions — get the court's confirmation before revoking (rujuk) or remarrying.

5Talaq by message, by phone and in anger

Messages, e-mail and phone. A written talaq counts as indirect (kinayah) in the Shafi'i school — it takes effect if the husband intends talaq. A talaq by phone call with explicit (sarih) wording is the same as one pronounced face to face. The Muzakarah of the Fatwa Committee of the National Council for Islamic Religious Affairs Malaysia has decided that talaq by SMS is valid if it can be proven in the Syariah Court. The usual issue is proof: who actually sent the message and what was intended.

In anger. The hadith "There is no talaq and no freeing of a slave in a state of ighlaq" (narrated by Abu Dawud 2193 and Ibn Majah; graded hasan by some scholars) is the basis of the discussion. A summary of scholarly views:

  • Ordinary anger in which he is still aware of what he is saying — the talaq takes effect according to all four schools. Almost every talaq happens in anger.
  • Extreme anger to the point of losing awareness and not knowing what he is saying — the talaq does not take effect, as with an insane person.
  • Intermediate stage — aware but unable to control himself: Ibn al-Qayyim held that it does not take effect; many other scholars hold that it does. The court will assess the evidence.
A claim of "I was too angry" must be proven in court. The safest way is not to utter anything related to talaq in anger.

6Khulʿ (divorce by redemption)

Khulʿ is a divorce at the wife's request with a payment (iwad) to the husband, usually returning the mahr. Its proof is Surah al-Baqarah 2:229: "then there is no blame on either of them for what she gives to free herself", and the hadith of the wife of Thabit bin Qais, who was told to return his orchard, after which the Messenger of Allah ﷺ told Thabit to divorce her (Sahih al-Bukhari 5273).

  • In the Shafi'i school (qaul jadid, that is, Imam Shafi'i's later opinion), khulʿ is a irrevocable talaq (ba'in) and is counted in the number of talaqs. The well-known view of the Hanbali school (and the qaul qadim, Imam Shafi'i's earlier opinion) regards it as a fasakh that does not reduce the number of talaqs, as long as it is not done with the wording or intention of talaq.
  • The husband cannot revoke; remarriage requires a new contract.
  • The husband is forbidden to make things hard for his wife so that she is forced to buy her release (Surah al-Nisa' 4:19).

In Malaysia, if the husband agrees, the court records the divorce and assesses the amount of the redemption payment; if he does not agree, the court appoints a conciliatory committee, and if conciliation fails the case may be referred to hakam (Act 303 s.49(4), s.47 and s.48, and the equivalent provisions in the state enactments).

7Judicial dissolution (fasakh) — dissolution by the court

Judicial dissolution (fasakh) is the dissolution of a marriage by a judge on the application of the wife (or husband) for a reason permitted by the Shariah. It is not counted in the number of talaqs. Among the grounds provided in Act 303 s.52 and the state enactments:

  • The husband's whereabouts have been unknown for more than one year.
  • The husband has neglected or failed to provide maintenance for three months.
  • The husband has been imprisoned for three years or more.
  • The husband has failed to fulfil his marital obligations (conjugal relations) without reasonable cause for one year.
  • The husband is impotent, insane, or suffering from a harmful disease.
  • The husband mistreats his wife — including physical harm, insults, forcing her into an immoral life, or disposing of her property.
  • If the husband has more than one wife, he does not treat her fairly in accordance with Islamic law.
  • Any other ground recognised by Islamic law.
For a wife in a polygynous marriage, unfairness in the rotation of nights, maintenance or treatment is a recognised ground for fasakh. See also Fairness between wives.

8Li'an, zihar and ila'

These three forms are discussed specifically in the Qur'an:

LiʿanThe husband accuses his wife of adultery or denies a child's lineage without four witnesses. Both swear four times, and a fifth time invoking Allah's curse/wrath (Surah an-Nur 24:6–9). The result is a permanent separation — they may never remarry, according to the majority.
ZiharThe husband likens his wife to his mother, for example "You are like my mother's back". Relations are forbidden until he pays the expiation (kaffarah): freeing a slave; if unable, fasting two consecutive months; if unable, feeding 60 poor people (Surah al-Mujadilah 58:1–4).
Ila'The husband swears not to have relations with his wife. He is given a period of four months (Surah al-Baqarah 2:226–227). After that, according to the majority, the husband must either return (and pay the expiation for his oath) or divorce; if he refuses, the judge may intervene.

9Divorce procedure in Malaysia

Islamic family law in Malaysia is a state matter. The Islamic Family Law (Federal Territories) Act 1984 (Act 303) and the state enactments have almost the same structure:

  1. Divorce application filed at the Syariah Court (Act 303 s.47).
  2. The court summons the other party. If both agree, the court may allow the husband to pronounce talaq before the court.
  3. If he does not agree, the case is referred to the Conciliatory Committee; if that still fails, the court may appoint arbitrators (hakam) from the families of both parties (Surah al-Nisa' 4:35; Act 303 s.48).
  4. The divorce is registered and a divorce certificate is issued.
  5. Ancillary claims: ʿiddah maintenance, mutʿah, jointly acquired matrimonial property, custody (hadhanah) and child maintenance.
Pronouncing talaq outside court without the court's permission is an offence (Act 303 s.124 and equivalent provisions in state enactments) punishable by a fine or imprisonment. The talaq may still take effect under the Shariah, but it must be reported to the court immediately so that it can be validated and registered. Never keep a divorce secret.

10Reconciliation (sulh), arbitrators (hakam) and rights after divorce

Before divorce — reconciliation (sulh) and arbitrators (hakam). The Qur'an sets reconciliation before separation: appoint two arbitrators, one from the husband's family and one from the wife's (Surah an-Nisa' 4:35). In Malaysia, the Syariah Court carries this out through sulh officers and, if necessary, hakam. Both are free.

"Divorce is twice. After that — either keep her on in a good manner, or release her with kindness." (Surah al-Baqarah 2:229) The Qur'an does not permit a marriage to be kept going in order to torment.

Rights after divorce — in Malaysia, the details and amounts follow state Islamic family law:

RightsMeaning
ʿIddah maintenanceThroughout the ʿiddah of a revocable talaq (raj'i). For an irrevocable talaq (ba'in), ʿiddah maintenance is due only if the former wife is pregnant (until she gives birth) — see ʿIddah & rujuk.
Mutʿah (consolatory gift)A consolatory gift to a wife divorced without reasonable cause. It is entirely different from nikah mutʿah (contract marriage), which is forbidden.
Harta sepencarianA share of the property acquired during the marriage.
HadhanahCustody of children, with priority to the mother for young children — see Custody & lineage.
Child maintenanceRemains the father's responsibility; it does not lapse on divorce.
In polygyny: divorce from one wife does not affect the marriage to the others. The divorced wife's rights — ʿiddah, mutʿah (consolatory gift), jointly acquired matrimonial property (harta sepencarian) — remain and can be claimed.

Sources & references

Surah al-Baqarah 2:226–230Surah an-Nisa' 4:19, 4:35Surah an-Nur 24:6–9Surah al-Mujadilah 58:1–4Surah at-Talaq 65:1Sahih al-Bukhari 5251; Sahih Muslim, Kitab at-Talaq (Ibn Umar's talaq during menstruation)Sahih Muslim, Kitab at-Talaq (hadith of Ibn Abbas on triple talaq)Sahih al-Bukhari 5273 (the khulʿ of Thabit bin Qais's wife)Narrated by Abu Dawud 2194 and at-Tirmidhi 1184 — marriage, talaq and revocation (hasan)Narrated by Abu Dawud 2193 and Ibn Majah — talaq in a state of ighlaq (hasan according to some scholars)Islamic Family Law (Federal Territories) Act 1984 (Act 303) s.47, 48, 49, 52, 124State Islamic Family Law EnactmentsIbn al-Qayyim, Ighathat al-Lahfan fi Hukm Talaq al-Ghadban

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