🧭 Preparation & choosing a spouse · #117

Should we show each other our credit reports before marrying?

It is a reasonable step if done with consent and a constructive intention, not to judge. A credit report shows loans, arrears and payment records, things that will affect applications for a house or car later. Start by offering your own report first, for example, ‘I have checked my record. If you agree, let us look together.’ If there are arrears, discuss a repayment plan calmly. A poor record is not necessarily a sign of bad character; what matters more is honesty and the effort to fix it. If debts feel heavy, AKPK provides advice and debt-management services. See discussing money before the akad.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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