Should I stop or cut back on work while my children are still small?

There is no one right answer for everyone; it is a joint decision that depends on your circumstances, finances and your children's needs. Weigh the financial effect, the cost of childcare, your health, and the support available. Some families choose for one parent to stop for a while; others choose part-time or flexible work. Discuss it without assuming that the sacrifice must fall on the wife. If you stop, plan so that your skills and confidence are not lost for returning later. If you keep working, make sure the childcare is good quality and safe. Make a decision you are both content with, and be ready to review it when circumstances change. See family finances.