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🤍 Character & conduct between spouses · #235

How can I learn to appreciate my spouse before it is too late or I lose them?

The blessing right in front of us is the easiest to forget until it is gone, so appreciate your spouse now. Imagine for a moment a day without your spouse; it helps you realise how much they do and mean. Say thank you for small things, and tell your spouse what you admire about them. Do not hold back kind words until an occasion or a final moment. Forgive small mistakes quickly, because time together is not guaranteed to be long. Pray for their good every day. Living with a lively sense of gratitude makes a marriage feel rich even when it is modest. Start today with one honest word of appreciation. See everyday adab.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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