🧒 Raising children (tarbiyah) · #145

How do I protect my teenager from online predators without losing his trust in me?

Your child's safety comes first: if your child is being threatened or groomed by an adult online, act immediately. If your child is in danger, call the police on 999 immediately, and Talian Kasih on 15999 for advice and support. For everyday prevention, make home a place where he is comfortable telling you things, and explain how predators lure with gifts or secrets so that he recognises the signs. Teach him that no adult has the right to ask for private photos or to keep conversations secret from parents. Monitor openly, not by silent spying, and assure him he will not be scolded for telling you. Trust and vigilance go hand in hand. For preventive steps, see digital & family.

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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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