Isteri baru saya janda, tapi dia minta tujuh malam. Boleh?

Boleh, tetapi jika janda memilih tujuh malam, suami wajib menggantikan tujuh malam juga kepada setiap isteri lain; haknya yang asal iaitu tiga malam tanpa ganti akan gugur. Ketika Nabi ﷺ berkahwin dengan Ummu Salamah RA, baginda tinggal bersamanya tiga malam lalu menawarkan: jika engkau mahu, aku tinggal tujuh malam bersamamu, tetapi aku juga akan tinggal tujuh malam bersama isteri-isteriku yang lain (Sahih Muslim). Ini memberi pilihan kepada isteri baru sambil menjaga hak isteri-isteri lain. Jadi suami perlu menjelaskan pilihan ini dengan baik. Lihat Fiqh poligami .

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⚖️ Poligami: hukum & keadilan · #31

My new wife is a divorcee, but she asks for seven nights. Is that allowed?

It is allowed, but if the previously married wife chooses seven nights, the husband must also make up seven nights to each of the other wives; her original right of three nights without make-up is then forfeited.
When the Prophet ﷺ married Umm Salamah RA, he stayed with her three nights and then offered: if you wish, I will stay seven nights with you, but I will also stay seven nights with my other wives (Sahih Muslim). This gives the new wife a choice while protecting the rights of the other wives. So the husband should explain this choice kindly. See Fiqh of polygyny.

Sumber

Sahih Muslim — hadith of Umm SalamahSahih al-Bukhari 5213

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