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Is a wife who is patient when her husband takes another wife rewarded?

Yes — patience in trials, including feelings of jealousy and sadness, is promised reward by Allah. Allah says that the patient are given their reward without measure, and the Prophet ﷺ said that no hardship or sorrow befalls a Muslim but that Allah expiates his sins through it. Patience does not mean swallowing injustice in silence; a wife can still claim her rights and remind kindly. Patience is guarding your tongue, actions and faith when your heart is hurting. If there is injustice, seeking justice is also an act of worship. See counselling.

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Surah az-Zumar 39:10Sahih al-Bukhari 5641Surah al-Baqarah 2:155
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Does the second wife have the same rights as the first wife?Yes — under Syariah, the second wife has the same rights as the first; there is no 'second-class' wife. She is enti…Must the second wife do as the first wife says?No — there is no hierarchy of obedience between wives; each wife obeys only her husband in what is reasonable. The first wife…Should I (the prospective second wife) contact the first wife myself without the man's knowledge?Usually not advisable — informing the first wife is the husband's responsibility. Contacting the first wife sec…The first wife works and has her own salary. May the husband reduce her maintenance for the second wife?No — the wife's salary does not remove the husband's duty of maintenance. A wife's maintenance is the husband's responsibility regardless of…I am a second wife, afraid of being divorced because the first wife is pressing for it. What are my rights?You are a lawful wife with full rights, and pressure from others for you to be divorced is forbidden in the hadith. The Prophet ﷺ forbade wo…As a second wife, how can I show respect to the first wife?Respect her space, time and feelings — do not compete openly or show off. Do not contact the husband…
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