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What should I do with the wedding photos and gifts from my ex-husband?

There is no single right answer; keep, give away or let go according to what helps you heal, while taking the children's feelings into account. Family photos are part of your children's history, so consider keeping some of them in a box for them later. Things that are too painful to see every day can be stored out of sight for a while. Gifts that were given have become yours, and you are free to keep, sell or donate them. Avoid throwing everything away in anger, because many people regret it later. Give yourself time, then decide with a calmer heart. Read the explanation at mental health.
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This answer is general reference, not a fatwa. For your situation, consult the religious affairs office, a Syarie lawyer or your state Syariah Court.

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