Apa yang boleh dan tidak boleh dilakukan dengan isteri ketika haid?

Persetubuhan ketika haid adalah haram, tetapi bermesra tanpa jimak dibenarkan dengan batasan. Allah memerintahkan agar menjauhi isteri ketika haid sehingga mereka suci. Nabi ﷺ bersabda: lakukanlah segala-galanya kecuali nikah (jimak). Suami boleh tidur bersama, memeluk, makan bersama dan bermesra. Isteri yang haid bukan najis dan tidak wajar dipinggirkan. Sesiapa yang terlanjur perlu bertaubat; sesetengah ulama menyarankan sedekah. Lihat Adab suami isteri .

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🏡 Hak & tanggungjawab · #20

What may and may not be done with one's wife during menstruation?

Intercourse during menstruation is forbidden, but affection without intercourse is permitted within limits.
Allah commands keeping away from wives during menstruation until they are pure. The Prophet ﷺ said: do everything except intercourse. The husband may sleep together, embrace, eat together and be affectionate. A menstruating wife is not impure and should not be shunned. Whoever slips must repent; some scholars recommend giving charity. See Marital etiquette.

Difference between schools. Shafi'i, Hanafi and Maliki: skin contact without a barrier between the navel and the knees is forbidden. Hanbali: only intercourse is forbidden; other contact is permitted.

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Surah al-Baqarah 2:222Sahih Muslim 302

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